{"id":12330,"date":"2026-04-23T10:15:00","date_gmt":"2026-04-22T22:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cvnznews.com\/?p=12330"},"modified":"2026-04-26T14:56:30","modified_gmt":"2026-04-26T02:56:30","slug":"former-church-leader-sentenced-for-groping-teenage-relative","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cvnznews.com\/?p=12330","title":{"rendered":"Former church leader sentenced for groping teenage relative"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>By Ella Scott-Fleming<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Warning: This story details indecent assault offending.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A victim says her life hasn\u2019t been the same since she was groped by her relative, who was a church leader, when she was 17.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She said the sexual violation in 2024 has had a lasting psychological and emotional impact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But her elderly family member maintains his innocence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He defended one charge of doing an indecent act on a dependent family member under the age of 18 in the Manukau District Court in January.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At the conclusion of the jury trial, presided over by Judge Janey Forrest, the man was found guilty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While sentencing him in the same court earlier this month, Judge Forrest said the man\u2019s high social standing made his \u201cbreach of trust\u201d even worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cYour [victim] and members of your community and congregation could be justified in expecting more and better of you,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The man, who is in his 70s, has permanent name suppression to protect the identity of the victim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">An after-school \u2018massage\u2019<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>The court heard that in December 2024, the girl arrived home from\u00a0school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The offender called out to her and asked her to massage his shoulder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He would commonly ask his wife and other family members for massages, the court was told.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.nzherald.co.nz\/resizer\/v2\/JX3YVGA73GHDL45DL6DTARGURA.jpg?auth=4801c91aabe3f78e8a674c081b5143490d055cc0a5d37a7583dd34fff5c693b8&amp;width=1440&amp;height=933&amp;quality=70&amp;smart=true\" alt=\"The man was sentenced in the Manukau District Court. Photo \/ NZ Herald\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">The man was sentenced in the Manukau District Court. Photo \/ NZ Herald<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>After she massaged the man for 20 minutes, he said she could go and get something to eat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Later, as she was walking to the bathroom, the defendant walked past her completely naked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In court, Judge Forrest noted this moment was not part of the charge but was part of what made the&nbsp;victim&nbsp;feel \u201cparticularly uncomfortable\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On that same day in 2024, the defendant again called out for a massage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This time, he was wearing only a lavalava.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As he lay on the bed face down, the girl sat on a chair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then he turned over to lie on his back and asked his victim if she would like a massage, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She said no, but he began rubbing her arm and shoulder, gradually moving down to her right breast.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He groped her breast before moving down to her thigh, where he moved his hand up and down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He then warned the girl not to tell anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During sentencing, the judge spoke of the man\u2019s \u201cbreach of trust\u201d in groping a family member.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She also said there was premeditation as the defendant had waited until all other relatives were out of the house to assault the victim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The other particularly strong feature of the offence was the effect it had on the&nbsp;victim, the judge said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She said the young woman\u2019s victim impact statement was \u201cdifficult to read\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Withdrawn, unstable and often \u2018unwell\u2019<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>The court heard that after the incident, the teenager\u2019s behaviour changed \u201csignificantly\u201d. She became withdrawn, emotionally unstable and often \u201cunwell\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She struggled with her sense of self-worth and the unstable effect of having to relocate away from the defendant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The teen found it difficult to discuss what happened, often slept all day and didn\u2019t eat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She hoped that if she slept for long enough, when she woke up, the assault wouldn\u2019t have happened, she told the court.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Defendant a former pastor<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>The man had been a long-serving member of a Christian organisation and previously served as one of its pastors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Judge Forrest said that in some ways, she saw his position in the community as making his \u201cbreach of trust\u201d worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The man\u2019s conviction and sentence would have an impact on his standing in his church and community, which the judge said was \u201cappropriate\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Defence lawyer Heena Gherra said that without \u201cdiminishing the seriousness\u201d of the offending, this was the first time her client had been before the court in 30 years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His previous convictions were for driving matters, she pointed out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She asked the judge for a sentence that would allow the man to continue his responsibilities to other young family members and his church.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gherra said that because of his physical condition, he was unable to serve a sentence of&nbsp;community work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A vulnerable victim<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Crown prosecutor Aysser Al-Janabi highlighted the man\u2019s sustained indecent offending against a vulnerable victim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She didn\u2019t see how a sentence of home detention would interfere with the defendant\u2019s responsibilities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Judge Forrest sentenced the man to three and a half months of home detention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because he continued to deny his offending, she ordered no rehabilitative programmes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Where to get help:<\/strong><br><strong>If it&#8217;s an emergency and you feel that you or someone else is at risk, call 111.<\/strong><br>If you&#8217;ve ever experienced sexual assault or abuse and need to talk to someone, contact&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/safetotalk.nz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Safe to Talk<\/a>&nbsp;confidentially, any time 24\/7:<br>\u2022 Call 0800 044 334<br>\u2022 Text 4334<br>\u2022 Email support@safetotalk.nz<br>\u2022 For more info or to web chat visit&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/safetotalk.nz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">safetotalk.nz<\/a><br>Alternatively contact your local police station &#8211;&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.police.govt.nz\/contact-us\/stations\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">click here for a list.<\/a><br><strong>If you have been sexually assaulted, remember it&#8217;s not your fault.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This story was first published by The NZ Herald on April 16, 2026.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Ella Scott-Fleming Warning: This story details indecent assault offending. 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