{"id":13066,"date":"2026-05-18T16:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-18T04:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cvnznews.com\/?p=13066"},"modified":"2026-05-17T16:51:29","modified_gmt":"2026-05-17T04:51:29","slug":"why-being-spiritual-but-not-religious-eventually-face-plants","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cvnznews.com\/?p=13066","title":{"rendered":"Why being spiritual but not religious eventually face plants"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>OPINION: Robin Schumacher,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Wall Street Journal recently\u00a0reported\u00a0that young New Yorkers have a new hot spot: Sunday Mass.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At St. Joseph\u2019s Church in Greenwich Village, \u201cA recent 6 p.m. Sunday Mass felt like a sold-out event. Every inch of pew space was filled, mostly with young adults. Latecomers squeezed into makeshift rows of plastic folding chairs or stood shoulder-to-shoulder in the foyer, peering through glass doors. Others squatted on balcony steps or leaned against walls for the roughly 90-minute service.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What\u2019s behind the surge in interest?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The article gives several reasons, including the search for community after the pandemic and the killing of conservative activist Charlie Kirk, part of a wave of high-profile incidents of political violence nationwide that has turned hearts in a different direction. But another cause has been the realized emptiness of being \u201cspiritual but not religious\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although there are reports of more spirituality than ever with greater access to spiritual teachings and experiences, it\u2019s been accompanied by less commitment and clarity. The result has been a faith that is deeply personal, but superficial; a spirituality that seems empowering, but doesn\u2019t transform; a search that is always moving, but never resolving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, there is that itsy-bitsy issue of it not being a&nbsp;<em>true<\/em>&nbsp;faith. And what else do you expect but a face plant from something false?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The disaster of doing what\u2019s right in our own eyes<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We\u2019ve seen a few shots over the bow warning about this. A major review in&nbsp;<em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S2352250X20301846\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Current Opinion in Psychology<\/a><\/em>&nbsp;found that those spiritual but not religious (SBNR) \u201ctend to be higher on neuroticism\u201d, which is a personality trait associated with anxiety, emotional instability, and stress reactivity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A study published in the journal&nbsp;<em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mdpi.com\/2077-1444\/11\/10\/513\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Religions<\/a><\/em>&nbsp;found that SBNR individuals often report: \u201cstruggles\u2026with existential issues\u201d that include unresolved questions about meaning, tension around belief, and lack of clarity about identity and purpose. There\u2019s also a 2026 study in&nbsp;<em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nature.com\/articles\/s41598-026-41882-9\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Scientific Reports<\/a><\/em>&nbsp;that examined non-religious spiritual practices closely aligned with SBNR identity and found associations with anxiety and depressive symptoms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting theological for just a minute, it looks like some people find out the hard way that breaking the first commandment comes with very real and personal consequences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The individualized, anti-institutional, slippery, and self-directed spirituality is really just a reenactment of&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/bibleportal.com\/verse-topic?version=ESV&amp;v=Judges%2021:25\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Judges 21:25<\/a>: \u201cEveryone did what was right in his own eyes.\u201d And look at how well that worked out for Israel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An ugly aspect of the SBNR route is that it\u2019s often heavily shaped by social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram, which optimize for one thing and only one thing \u2013 engagement. You won\u2019t find the testing of truth claims there; it\u2019s where truth isn\u2019t received, but constructed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Look long enough on those platforms, and you\u2019ll find someone telling you what you want to hear, just like Paul warned: \u201cThey will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions\u201d (<a target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/bibleportal.com\/verse-topic?version=ESV&amp;v=2Tim%204:3\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">2 Tim. 4:3<\/a>). The conversations on those platforms show that Paul\u2019s words aren\u2019t ancient history; they reflect modern spirituality with better technology.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although discussions occur in those spaces, they only resonate emotionally, reinforce existing views, and avoid friction or challenge at all costs. The result is an echo chamber that is superficially meaningful for the moment but never examined, and thus never lasting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s what serving a false god will get you. Remember the adage that idols can be both metal and mental?&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t think there\u2019s a better illustration of what\u2019s happening today with the SBNR crowd than the picture Isaiah paints where he portrays a man who takes wood, \u201cThen it becomes something for a man to burn, so he takes one of them and warms himself; he also makes a fire to bake bread. He also makes a god and worships it; he makes it a graven image and falls down before it. Half of it he burns in the fire; over this half he eats meat as he roasts a roast and is satisfied. He also warms himself and says, \u201cAha! I am warm, I have seen the fire.\u201d But the rest of it he makes into a god, his graven image. He falls down before it and worships; he also prays to it and says, \u201cDeliver me, for you are my god.\u201d They do not know, nor do they understand, for He has smeared over their eyes so that they cannot see and their hearts so that they cannot comprehend. No one recalls, nor is there knowledge or understanding to say, \u201cI have burned half of it in the fire and also have baked bread over its coals. I roast meat and eat it. Then I make the rest of it into an abomination, I fall down before a block of wood!\u201d (Is. 44:15-19).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And what\u2019s the result? \u201cA deceived heart has turned him aside. And he cannot deliver himself\u201d (Is. 44:20). Just like the SBNR crowd today, who find their made-up spirituality has no real power either, which leaves them empty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s room for hope, though, if what\u2019s happening at St. Joseph\u2019s and other churches is indicative of SBNR folks and others finding the real God and a saving relationship with Christ. Because in the end, the hunger driving all of this isn\u2019t just for experience, but for something solid, true, and outside of us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And according to Scripture, that something isn\u2019t found by curating your own path. Rather, it\u2019s found by surrendering to the one that God has already given.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>OPINION: Robin Schumacher, The Wall Street Journal recently\u00a0reported\u00a0that young New Yorkers have a new hot spot: Sunday Mass. At St. Joseph\u2019s Church in Greenwich Village, \u201cA recent 6 p.m. Sunday Mass felt like a sold-out event. Every inch of pew space was filled, mostly with young adults. 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