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Alistair Begg is the senior pastor at Parkside Church near Cleveland, Ohio and is perhaps best known for his syndicated radio program, Truth for Life. He has authored and coauthor of several books, including Preaching for God\u2019s Glory<\/em>, Name above All Names<\/em>, and the Christian Manifesto. With a reputation as a sound teacher, he can occasionally be found on the conservative preaching circuit, and is a speaker at the upcoming Shepherds Conference<\/a> alongside John MacArthur and Steve Lawson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

During a recent program of Truth for Life<\/a>, Begg offers a scenario where a Christian woman called in saying that her grandson is about to marry a \u2018transgendered person\u2019 (either another man who has \u2018transitioned\u2019 to a \u2018woman\u2019, or a woman who has \u2018transitioned\u2019 into a \u2018man\u2019) and wants to know if she should attend the wedding.

Noting that \u201cpeople may not like this answer,\u201d Begg says that as long as grandson knows that she believes it is sinful and she does not agree with it, then she SHOULD attend the ceremony, and even buy them a gift, because if not, her absence will simply reinforce the fact that she is \u201cjudgmental\u201d and \u201ccritical.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Bob:<\/strong> I think every pastor who preaches, every author who writes a book like this, comes away thinking, \u201cI hope my readers or my listeners will think differently as a result of their interaction with this, will feel differently and will act differently. As you think about this book and your prayer for this book, what do you hope will be different? How do you hope people will be different after they have read this book and they\u2019ve meditated on this sermon?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alistair:<\/strong> Well, first of all, you know, I hope that I<\/em> will be different. The old song that we never sing\u2014you know, \u201cIt\u2019s not my brother nor my sister, but it\u2019s me, O Lord, standing in the need of prayer\u201d\u2014I mean, that is foundationally the case. And so I hope that that would be multiplied. I hope that our church family, those who choose to read this book, that it might have an impact among us. Because learning to say, \u201cI\u2019m sorry,\u201d learning to say, \u201cPlease forgive me,\u201d learning to say, you know, \u201cI\u2019m not at my best at the moment; can you come alongside me?\u201d learning to say, \u201cYes, I know that these people believe a very different agenda, that their lifestyle is orientated in another direction,\u201d and learning to say, \u201cBut I have no basis upon which I could argue that I myself would not be where they are were it not for the amazing grace of God, were it not for his compassion towards me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And in very specific areas this comes across. I mean, you and I know that we field questions all the time that go along the lines of \u201cMy grandson is about to be married to a transgender person, and I don\u2019t know what to do about this, and I\u2019m calling to ask you to tell me what to do\u201d<\/strong>\u2014which is a huge responsibility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And in a conversation like that just a few days ago\u2014and people may not like this answer\u2014but I asked the grandmother, \u201cDoes your grandson understand your belief in Jesus?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cDoes your grandson understand that your belief in Jesus makes it such that you can\u2019t countenance in any affirming way the choices that he has made in life?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I said, \u201cWell then, okay. As long as he knows that, then I suggest that you do<\/em> go to the ceremony. And I suggest that you buy them a gift.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOh,\u201d she said, \u201cwhat?\u201d She was caught off guard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I said, \u201cWell, here\u2019s the thing: your love for them may catch them off guard, but your absence will simply reinforce the fact that they said, \u2018These people are what I always thought: judgmental, critical, unprepared to countenance anything.\u2019\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And it is a fine line, isn\u2019t it? It really is. And people need to work out their own salvation with fear and trembling. But I think we\u2019re going to take that risk. We\u2019re going to have to take that risk a lot more if we want to build bridges into the hearts and lives of those who don\u2019t understand Jesus and don\u2019t understand that he is a King.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bob:<\/strong> John tells us he was \u201cfull of grace and truth,\u201dand we have to figure out how we can be full of grace and truth at the same time, don\u2019t we?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alistair:<\/strong> Yeah. Yeah, our words should be \u201cfull of grace\u201d and \u201cseasoned with salt.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bob:<\/strong> Yes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alistair:<\/strong> It\u2019s so easy to get that upside down. And when a pastor does, then that will take on a role in a congregation as well and flavor it. And so, you know, \u201cLet not many of you become teachers.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pastor Alistair Begg says Christians should attend gay weddings and even buy the couple a gift, lest they come across as ‘judgmental’ or ‘critical’<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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